Thanksgiving Weekend

“Relax and rest. God has showered you with blessings. Soul, you’ve been rescued from death; Eye, you’ve been rescued from tears; And you, Foot, were kept from stumbling.” http://bible.us/Ps116.7.MSG

Enjoyed a restful Thanksgiving with family in Central Louisiana, including many of my 30+ first cousins getting together for our annual turkey feast & a change of pace BBQ dinner with Heather’s family in Pineville. Also, enjoyed a fruitful hunting trip with my boys and of course a fruitful Black Friday experience to get us way ahead for Christmas.

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So Grateful to Be a Part of this Church

Looking forward to another year of movement making with these guys.

What does “I don’t know how” really mean?

There is so much information available to us today. This year, I ran into questions like “How to clean a carburetor” and “How to pickle okra” and “How to change a delta shower faucet.” Found the answers all on Youtube! and in the case of cleaning a carburetor, found a video of a 10 year old demonstrating. Reminded me that “I don’t know how” many times means something else. Like: “I don’t really want to” or “I don’t really care” or “I’m not interested enough to make time to find out.” There is ignorance, which is defined as the state of being uninformed or unaware about knowledge that’s available. And in most arenas, ignorance is expensive: like my carburetor and delta faucet.

So, spiritually speaking, rethink your “I don’t know how.” Does it really mean something else? God’s word is available to you. Find a person that you know lives for God and ask for their help and prayers. Pray and ask God to guide you to the right stuff. “I don’t know how” is spiritually expensive when we think about the clock ticking on when the kids are grown and gone, the fatherless kids that need mentoring before they become a statistic, those who are depressed that need encouragement, those dying of curable diseases (estimated 26,000 per day), and those w/o Christ that need to know of his love before its eternally too late.

If it matters to us, we tend to find out how. Don’t settle for “I don’t know how” in your relationship with God, the needs of others, and issues that will matter when nothing else does.

Serving on Sunday, part one

A growing trend in church life is congregations taking a Sunday and scattering throughout the community to serve. Most are doing it once a year. Some, like the church I’m part of, are doing it once a quarter. I even heard of one recently doing this once a month! Outreach.com even created some products for this segment of congregations. Seems Pastors and church leaders either hate this idea or love it. Some reasons I’ve heard and can think of against this:

  • It subverts the importance of preaching the Word of God.
  • It hurts church growth by making things awkward and uncomfortable for newcomers, visitors, and the disconnected.
  • “We can’t go a Sunday w/o taking an offering.”
  • It promotes a liberal agenda of social action.
  • “I can’t imagine how we would find enough for everyone to do around our community.”

Brandon Hatmaker in his great book Barefoot Church: Serving the Least in a Consumer Culture talks about his church’s experience with this practice. Austin New Church does a “Serving Austin Sunday” every time there is five Sunday’s in a month. He gives three reasons why:

  1. It creates a service minded DNA. It’s an opportunity to communicate serving is a priority to the church.
  2. It changes the posture to the community. The community sees the church’s deed matching the creed.
  3. The opportunity to invite others. Hatmaker says it’s the most highly attended Sunday for non-believers, skeptics, the unchurched, and the dechurched. “I’m constantly amazed at who might show up at a service project.”

Other reasons for and against? Leave in the comments. I’ll share some of my thoughts for and against after two years and eight Faith in Action Sunday’s a little later.

Brandon’s book is well worth reading! Also check out his blog.

It’s All About ______.

Possible answers: ME or GOD and OTHERS.

The key characteristic of someone maturing in Christ is a God-and-others-centered outlook. You begin to see God’s purpose for and in your life and you begin to see the needs of others as a priority as you grow spiritually. So who or what is it all about for you?

  • Am I responsive to God’s Word? John 14:21, 23
  • Am I aware of the needs of those around me? Philippians 2:3-11
  • Am I willing to serve or waiting to be served? Matthew 20:28
  • Am I looking for opportunities based on personal benefits to me or the potential impact for God’s kingdom? Matthew 6:33
  • Do I stop at feeling sorry for people or am I willing to act on their behalf? 1 John 3:16-18
  • Am I following Jesus into a life of influencing others or do I see Christ and the church primarily through the lens of my own wants and needs? Matthew 4:19, 28-18-20

A few quotes from Jim Putman’s Real-Life Discipleship that have me thinking:

“when we see a person in need, it is an invitation from God to step in with love and service and words”

“When we know Christ, we start to look at people differently.”

How has knowing Christ changed your priorities? Who or what is it all about for you? Is your response to God changing the answers in your life?

“If we really wanted to be seeker-sensitive, we’d forget the coffee and put in a bacon bar” ~Checking in on the Church Curmudgeon

A curmudgeon is basically a grumpy old man. But the spirit of a curmudgeon can come out of any of us whatever our age or gender. The attitude is not very helpful in church and is actually spoken against in scripture (Philippians 2:14). The Church Curmudgeon is actually on Twitter and if you’re there you should follow him for a good laugh and for a good look at how generations are colliding in 21st century church life. Here’s a few of my favorite recent Tweets by the Curmudgeon. Have you heard or said any of these? See my first check-in here.

  • Here’s a shout out to the worship leader: Turn down the stupid guitar and learn a HYMN!
  • I note that the pastor planned his stewardship series -after- pastor’s appreciation month.
  • I say we turn the clock back again this week. And every week ’til we hit, say, 1952.
  • If we really wanted to be seeker-sensitive, we’d forget the coffee and put in a bacon bar.
  • Liquor is an abomination. Homemade cold remedies, however, are Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.
  • The coffee today was like the deacon’s board. Weak and bitter.
  • So glad we’re not worldly in our church. In the world, the comedian comes out before the band.
  • Seniors’ Online Safety Seminar today – Keeping Your Finances Secure. Hosted by Mbewe Ahore of Nigerian Central Bank.
  • As I recall, the French were “seeker-friendly” in 1940.
  • Your prayer labyrinth looks exactly like my circuit through the Costco food samples.
  • When a great innovator dies, it leaves a hole in the cosmos that never quite heals. Still miss you, Col. Sanders.
  • If I had known there was going to be an internet, I wouldn’t have bought all those encyclopedias back in ’52.
  • I accidentally loaded my Monday pills in the Sunday box. No wonder the sermon didn’t make sense.
  • Putting the bulletin announcement in 8-pt font -a sneaky way to keep the seniors out of the business meeting. We shall repay.
  • I keep forgetting which kind of progress I’m supposed to impede on Wednesdays.
He takes a hilarious shot at new church names:

Diagnosing Spiritual Immaturity

“the mouth speaks from the overflow of the heart”

http://bible.us/Matt12.34.HCSB.

How can I know where I am spiritually or where are those I’m trying to disciple and lead? Try listening. Jim Putman in Real-Life Discipleship: Equipping Disciples Who Make Disciples breaks down five stages of spiritual maturity by what will be common phrases for a person at each stage.

Spiritual Infant

  • “I don’t have to go to church to be a Christian.”
  • “I pray and read my Bible. That’s good enough for me.”
  • “I didn’t know the Bible said that.”
  • “Jesus helps me be a good person. I don’t need church.”
  • Characterized by ignorance, confusion, dependence, worldly perspective.
  • Needs personal attention of a spiritual parent, teaching and modeling the Christian faith, accountability to develop new habits.

Spiritual Child

  • “My church isn’t taking care of my needs.”
  • “I didn’t like the music today. If only they did it like…”
  • “I love my small group; don’t add more people to it.”
  • “I’m not being fed at my church, so I’m going to a church that can meet my needs better.”
  • Characterized by self-centeredness, pride, idealism, spiritual highs and lows.
  • Needs relational connections to a church family, help to start feeding themselves, teaching about identity in Christ.

Spiritual Young Adult

  • “I love my small group, but there are others who need a group like this.”
  • “Randy and Rachel missed church today. Their kids have the flu, maybe our group could make meals for them. I’ll start.”
  • “I have some friends I’ve been witnessing to. I think I could lead a Bible Study for them with a little help.”
  • “In my devotions, I came across something I have a question about.”
  • Characterized by action, zeal, God-centered, others-centered, independent, desire to serve others.
  • Needs opportunities to serve, ongoing relationships that offer encouragement, accountability and skills training.

Spiritual Parent

  • “This guy at work asked me to explain the Bible to him. Pray for me.”
  • “Our small group is going on a mission trip, and I have given each person a different responsibility.”
  • “We get to baptize someone from my small group today. I want them to get plugged into a ministry right away.”
  • Characterized by intentionality, reproduction mindset, dependability, desire to see others mature.
  • Needs ongoing relationships with other disciple makers, a team approach, accountability and encouragement.

So where are you? If you’re moving toward spiritual maturity you may want to get this book or the training manual to learn more about how to be a spiritual parent and make disciples who make disciples. Here’s a few other great quotes from the manual:

  • Every Christian is commanded to participate in the mission to make disciples.
  • Your work is complete when the person you are discipling can make a disciple.
  • The church was not designed to be a group of spectators who attend weekly lectures; it was designed to be a trained army with a powerful message.
  • We cannot change the definition of discipleship to sit and listen and then expect to make disciples as Jesus did.
  • Don’t mistake Bible Knowledge, years of church attendance, physical age, education, and so forth for spiritual maturity.
  • A church is successful when everyone is in the game, maturing into disciples who can reproduce disciples.
  • When disciple-making is reduced to a program, people often fail to connect it to a lifestyle.
  • Relationships create the environment where discipleship happens best.
  • Serving produces players, not spectators. Service helps a disciple develop and mature.

A few Favs from last week:

Links I liked & learned from:
  1. The Pastor Driven Church – “The Pastor Driven Church sacrifices bold preaching and personal disciple making forpowerless people pleasing.”
  2. What is Neighboring – “From the City’s perspective, there’s not a lot of difference between how Christians and non-Christians neighbor” ~ local city-manager.
  3. 10 Ways to Help Your Church Reach Out through Social Media –
  4. Are you Creating or Consuming? – “when it comes to creating versus consuming, how much balance do you have in your life?”
  5. Francis Chan: From Mega-Church Pastor to Multi-Housing Church Planter –
From the Twittersphere:
  1. DaveRamsey   Behind every successful man is a great woman and a surprised mother-in-law.
  2. NationsBeGlad   “The greatest form of praise is the sound of consecrated feet seeking out the lost and helpless.” – Billy Graham
  3. brandonhatmaker  “The more you scatter your people for mission, the more meaning your gathering will have.” @hughhalter #leadnet #LNLive
  4. RealEricGeiger   Everyone is a disciple of someone, but not everyone is transformed. Only 1 Leader brings transformation to His disciples.
  5. CMAResources  You don’t graduate from learning until there’s a flatline on the screen next to your bed. #LNlive #leadnet
  6. drboblogan   Don’t start churches to make disciples. Start churches by making disciples. @davedv
  7. darrinpatrick  Instead of leaving the church because it doesn’t offer your pet program, consider staying and starting it. #forthecity

Thanks to Our Veterans!

A few of my personal pictures from around the memorials in DC from our trip there. a couple of years ago.

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Mind the Gaps

I know what God says, BUT…

  • “my situation is different.”
  • “that will never happen to me.”
  • “everyone else does it.”
  • “that was a long time ago.”
  • “they deserve it.”
  • “god understands my needs.”
  • “who really does that anyway?”
  • “that’s just not possible for me.”
  • “I’ll get around to that one day.”

When you disobey God it means there is a gap between where you are and where you know God wants you to be. “I know what God says, BUT…” or “I know what I should be doing, BUT…” reveals that gap for all that it is. When you excuse your disobedience, you are saying more about what you believe about God than anything else. What you should just go ahead and say is, “I know what God says, BUT…”

  • “He really doesn’t matter that much to me.”
  • “I know better than He does about this issue/situation. I’m so much wiser about these kind of things.”
  • “God has changed since the Bible was written and all that stuff doesn’t really matter anymore.”
  • “I’d rather do what my friends say than God. They are so much smarter than him.”
  • “I don’t really think He can provide for this need. I’ll just do it myself.”
  • “I don’t really believe in God at all. Since he’s not real, I can do whatever I want.”

If you can easily excuse a pattern of disobedience, blowing off the word and will of God, the book of 1 John says you are a liar, deceived, and in darkness.

The true Christian responds to God’s word with obedience. He’s revealed Himself in Christ who is willing to transform our lives. The transformed one responds to God with obedience. You can mind the gaps by repenting and being obedient to what God is calling you to do.